Thursday, April 12, 2012

How Not to Offend People

"The world promises you comfort, but you were not made for comfort. You were made for greatness."
Pope Benedict XVI

We are in the midst of an "anything goes" culture where morality is taking a downward spiral right along with common sense, as depression, divorce, dissatisfaction, boringness, and overall mediocrity are skyrocketing in all of their glory. See, I know what you're thinking. It sounds like a real hell-hole of a society. Where do you live? America, thank you very much. And this is precisely the point I'm trying to make. We've gotten altogether way too comfortable with, well...comfort. 

When I say comfort I don't just mean that we have enough food in our homes at any given time to feed a pack of wolves, or that we have clothes way too expensive to be lived in, or even that we have cars that are nicer than some people's houses. No. As messed up as that is, I'm not really feeling like going there right now. What I mean by comfort is the sense of comfort that one has upon going to a baseball game in which there is no knowledge of, attachment, or fidelity to either team. There is a carelessness about it. It is easy to spend most of the time in line at the concession stand because we are bored with the actual reason we are there, the game. 

So while we are spending $5 for a baseball brat and a $5 for a  beer, (Excuse the condescending tone. I do not judge, I've totally done it), fans are screaming, cheering, singing, enjoying the game. But what do we care, we have no allegiance to either team. In fact, we can't even remember if the home team is American or National League. 

At the baseball field this boredom and indifference might be okay, but in life it's unacceptable, and it has proven devastating. If we don't know which team we play for, the opponents, their stats, the field we're playing on, or the rules of the game, all hope is lost. If we know all of this like the back of our hand, yet we are too scared to get out there and play ball, we are victims to an awful shame and a horrific "could have been." 



So, my advice to you, if you like brats and beer and comfort, don't speak up. Don't play for a team. Even better; say you play for a team, then chicken out when it's game time. That keeps you looking like you know your stuff, all while never having to run the bases. But for those of you to whom the nosebleed seats and the dugout just aren't good enough, you take up your bat and step onto that field, regardless of how hard the home team "boos." For Jesus' picks up his wooden bat - the cross, and runs the bases for you to this day, playing for the win. And really, who doesn't want to play with Jesus? 

6 comments:

  1. Not to "offend", but this has nothing to do with, well... how not to offend people. It's more like, how boring baseball is....

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    1. I think she's saying that the comfort/brats/beer people are the ones who don't offend anyone because they don't participate. Kind of a strange analogy, though; and I disagree with it. How can one be certain one is rooting for the "right" team? What if the people in the nosebleed seats are impartial not because they don't care, but because they aren't presumptuous enough to assume that their "team" knows the all right answers to life's questions?

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  2. Let me begin by saying the game of baseball is a great analogy for real life. But not as real life should be. Baseball is a game where two teams are pitted against each other. Each side is competing for dominance. Unfortunately, the same is all too true in today's society. Democrats vs. Republicans, Christians vs. Atheists, etc. Each day, I suppose, your analogy of team against team becomes more true. But I don't think that's how it should be.

    Maybe they world would be a little less angry at each other if they dropped the idea of "Our team versus their team" and decided to sit down and share a brat and a beer together.

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  3. I don't think she's using this analogy in a "team vs team" sort of way. The intention of this post is not about making sure you play for the right team, but rather, whatever team you're on, make sure you get your game on! A life lived in fear (or indifference) is a life half lived. It's heartbreaking. That's not the kind of life we are called to live. Let's not be afraid of getting our hands dirty sliding across that home plate--Go big, or go home! There's no sense in dwelling between the two. St. Catherine of Siena said, “If you are what you should be, you will set the whole world ablaze!” Why settle for anything less?! Don't just drag your cross. Don't just stare at your cross. Pick up your cross (or baseball bat--cool analogy!), carry it proudly and square upon your back, and follow him!

    p.s. FACT. Baseball is the greatest sport on earth. Just Saying.

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  4. There is actually a certain logic discipline to analogies. My blog partner did a post about it once.
    http://2catholicmen.blogspot.com/2012/03/analogies.html

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  5. I think Bridget Ann is spot on. Many of us live a life where we are comfortable in our own little world, not caring much for what goes on as long as it doesn't interfere with our buying our own "brats and beer". As in the analogy above, we refuse to make a commitment to one team or another, always careful to say the right thing in the right crowd so as to not offend.

    We can say that life is more than belonging to a team, but that is not reality if one is Christian, especially a Catholic. We are not called to be a light to the world only to put that light under a basket, but to go "out and teach all nations". If we 'call' ourselves Catholic, but refuse to defend our faith for fear of offending, we ARE offending the object of our faith: Jesus.

    We will say, I'm against abortion, while sitting in the bleachers with pro-life fans, then later, sitting in the box seats with pro-choice fans we say, I believe and support your right to abortion. That is not belief or faith, that is complacency and apathy, both killers of the spiritual life within us.

    As long as you are allowed to exist in your bubble, you are comfortable. You demand nothing from those around you or from yourself. You watch the game from the outside, yet unknowingly, your head is in line for the next errant foul ball about to come your way. Consider this verse from 3:15-17:

    “To the angel of the church in Laodicea write:

    15 I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! 16 So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth. 17 You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.

    We were not created to just exist in this world, but to live life to its fullest. And if we are truly a faithful Catholic, then that demands we speak the truth even if it offends others. There are two teams: Christ and the world. We cannot have two masters.

    Great post Bridget Ann.

    The Ordinary Catholic- http://petersbarque.blogspot.com/

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